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Take Time For You This Christmas

December 08

A flourishing relationship demands 'us' time as well as 'me' time. That means both partners investing in their relationship and taking some 'alone' time to connect with their individual interests and friendships. Read More


 

 


 

 

It 's Not Your Fault

 

November 2008 

Women who have lived through abuse know how much they battle with feelings of overwhelming guilt wondering if it is truly their fault for their partner's attacks.  They try hard to change their behaviour hoping that it will appease his anger but it never does. Read More

 

 
 


 

Why Listening Can Keep You Safe!

October 2008

It's inevitable that during a dating relationship the question about former lovers is going to come up. You know the questions: 'How long have you been single? ...  Asking each other questions is all part of getting to know each other ...Read More

 

 



What Do You Want To Change?

September 2008

My work as a Coach involves helping others change. This means helping them change something in themselves or in their lives that would prevent them from realising their dreams.Read More





Should I Accept His Apology

July 2008

All relationships go through times of conflict and how we manage that conflict has an effect on how much intimacy and authenticity we experience with the other person.....Yet what do we do when somebody is a 'repeat offender'? By that I mean what do you do when someone keeps saying sorry but then they carry on just like before? Read More




Happiness is not asking for a relationship

June 2008

Happiness is a primary need in all of and we all desire to find and maintain it and avoid pain as much as possible! We all desire that same happiness in our relationships and we also derive it from other things in life. What things bring you happiness in life? Read more





Are All Men The Same?

May 2008

Have you noticed a pattern in the type of people you are attracted to? Have you ever wondered why that is or have you put it down to being unlucky in love and relationships? For 15 years, I believed that 'all men were jerks' ...read more




How Do I Stop Rushing Into Relationships?

April 2008
Are there ways we can avoid the pitfalls of a rushed and failed relationship? Let's first look at the reasons why we might be rushing it......read more