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Take Time For You This Christmas
December 08
A flourishing relationship demands 'us' time as well as 'me'
time. That means both partners investing in their relationship and taking some 'alone' time to connect
with their individual interests and friendships. Read More
It 's Not Your Fault
November 2008
Women who have lived through abuse know how much they battle
with feelings of overwhelming guilt wondering if it is truly their fault for their
partner's attacks. They try hard to
change their behaviour hoping that it will appease his anger but it never does. Read More
Why Listening Can Keep You Safe!
October 2008
It's inevitable that during a dating relationship the
question about former lovers is going to come up. You know the questions: 'How
long have you been single? ... Asking each other questions is all part of
getting to know each other ...Read More
What Do You Want To Change?
September 2008
My work as a Coach involves helping others change. This means helping them change something in themselves or in their lives that would prevent them from realising their dreams.Read More
Should I Accept His Apology
July 2008
All relationships go through times of conflict and how we manage that conflict has an effect on how much intimacy and authenticity we experience with the other person.....Yet what do we do when somebody is a 'repeat offender'? By that I mean what do you do when someone keeps saying sorry but then they carry on just like before? Read More
Happiness is not asking for a relationship
June 2008
Happiness is a primary need in all of and we all desire to
find and maintain it and avoid pain as much as possible! We all desire that
same happiness in our relationships and we also derive it from other things in
life. What things bring you happiness in life? Read more
Are All Men The Same?May 2008
Have you noticed a pattern in the type of people you are
attracted to? Have you ever wondered why that is or have you put it down to
being unlucky in love and relationships? For
How Do I Stop Rushing Into Relationships?
April 2008
Are there ways we can avoid the pitfalls of a rushed and failed relationship? Let's first look at the reasons why we might be rushing it......read more