
Personality and
Relationships
Have you ever met someone you immediately clicked with while others it took a while to warm up to and still others, you just could not like?
Psychologists called this phenomenon 'personality'. Personality is a
fairly fixed way of responding to the world, which we develop early on in life.
Some theorists believe that some of our personality traits are genetic, and
others say they are learned or a product of our environment.
Personality is neither right nor wrong, it just is. We are all created in
a variety of different ways and capable of using our personalities for good or
bad. Personality Inventories have been designed to help us understand personality
'types' which give us good indicators of how we interact and engage with others
and our world around us.
For example, some of us tend to be impulsive and spontaneous, or more
reflective and thoughtful. Some personality types tend to be more talkative and
expressive while others are more logical and objective.
Personality can be seen as a gift or a curse. We can accept the way we are and the way others are or we can complain and criticise that everyone who is not like us is difficult rather than just being different. It is our choice how we respond to our personalities and others and by understanding different personality types we can learn to live more harmoniously with ourselves and others.
Personality & Dating/Personal
Relationships
Within personalities we can find that we are 'attracted' to certain personalities and 'opposed' to other certain types. We may put off getting to know someone because their personality preference doesn't seem to be complimentary to our personality style. This may mean that we lose the opportunity to get to know a potentially great match because we didn't understand that a difference doesn't mean incompatibility.
Or we may find that in the beginning of a new relationship the person we
are attracted to feels affirmed and complimented that we enjoy their
personality so much. After time goes on we may find that what we once found so
attractive may be the quality that irritates us the most.
By learning about our personality style and preferences, we can learn
about the personalities we consider are our 'opposites or 'attractors'. Understanding of our personality also gives us
the opportunity to consider whether we need to develop more of the 'opposite' personality
qualities within ourselves so that we can enhance the way we relate to others
and increase our sphere of influence and potential dates outside of our typical
'type'.
Clarity 4D
Personality Profiling
Clarity 4D is an
online psychological profile system used to help us understand more about
ourselves and others and it can help you improve communication and decision
making in relationships as well as understand the types of personality you are
attracted to.
The Clarity4D system is a Jungian instrument and gives feedback on your "preferences" - Extraverted, Introverted, Thinking and Feeling. It will inform you of your preferred communication style helping you understand you strengths and weaknesses, so that you can continue to improve and enhance yourself and how you relate to others.
Why Was It Created?
There are many psychometric
models on the market that offer in-depth psychological profiles for business
and personal relationships. Often, these are too deep and complicated for many
people to apply to their behaviour and communication style to meet the needs of
different psychological types.
Because the Clarity 4D system is simple and about colour, you will more easily be able to retain and recognise your preference style and that of others around you.
Each individual will have a personal report which will enable them to:
The Process
Package 1 - Individuals
You
will complete an online, web-based questionnaire and then receive a PDF format
document detailing your Clarity4D profile as well as an explanation of what the
profile means. (£40 pdf) (£50 Print & Bind). Purchase Now! Click Here!
Package 2 Individuals
Get
the best value from your profile. As an Accredited Facilitator of the Clarity
4D Program, I can assist with helping you understand your profile and help work
on setting goals based on the enlightenments made from the tests. (1.5 hours
coaching) (£85) Purchase Now! Click here!
Package 3-Groups and Organisations
Working with a group of people from the same organisation, I will typically run a half or one day programme during which they will learn about personality "types", differences, what your report means and how to make use of it to improve relationships, working in teams and making decisions. Please call for more information and costs.To Book: Please email info at donnaintera.co.uk or call Joanne on 01362 654 488 or 07944 577 754